Mass Effect 3
Mass Effect 3

Romance Options

Uncover all romance paths in Mass Effect 3. This guide details how to deepen relationships with crewmates and secure unique scenes with specific characters.

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Romance Options

Mass Effect 3 offers a rich tapestry of romantic relationships, allowing Commander Shepard to deepen bonds with crewmates and even rekindle past flames. These relationships often culminate in unique dialogue, intimate scenes, and a more personal connection to the unfolding galactic war. This guide will walk you through the specific steps required to successfully pursue each romance option.

General Romance Tips

  • Consistent Dialogue Choices: Always choose the Paragon (upper-right) or Renegade (lower-right) dialogue options that align with showing interest. Avoid neutral or dismissive responses.
  • Frequent Conversations: After every major mission, return to the Normandy and speak with your chosen love interest. New dialogue options often appear.
  • Gift Giving (Limited): While not as prevalent as in previous games, some characters appreciate specific actions or items.
  • Commitment Point: Most romances have a clear "commitment" dialogue option where Shepard must explicitly choose to pursue the relationship. Be mindful of this.
  • Loyalty Missions: While not strictly romance-related in ME3, completing loyalty missions in ME2 (if applicable) can impact the availability or depth of certain ME3 romances.

Romanceable Characters

Liara T'Soni (Female & Male Shepard)

Liara is a returning romance option from Mass Effect 1, and can also be romanced for the first time in Mass Effect 3.

Walkthrough Steps:

  1. Priority: Mars: After the mission, speak with Liara in the Normandy's Port Observation Deck. Choose supportive dialogue.
  2. Citadel Visits: Regularly visit Liara in her office on the Citadel (Presidium Commons, Spectre Terminal area) and choose romantic dialogue options.
  3. Normandy Conversations: After each major mission, speak with Liara in her quarters on the Normandy. Look for dialogue options that express affection or interest.
  4. Commitment Dialogue: During a conversation on the Normandy, Liara will express her feelings. Choose the dialogue option, "I want to be with you."
  5. Shadow Broker Content: If you romanced Liara in ME1 and completed the "Lair of the Shadow Broker" DLC in ME2, there will be additional intimate moments and dialogue reflecting your shared history.
  6. Apartment Visit (Citadel DLC): If you have the Citadel DLC, invite Liara to your apartment for a special scene.

Garrus Vakarian (Female Shepard Only)

Garrus is a returning romance option from Mass Effect 2.

Walkthrough Steps:

  1. Priority: Palaven: After the mission, speak with Garrus on the Normandy's Main Deck (near the Combat Information Center). Choose friendly and supportive dialogue.
  2. Normandy Conversations: Frequently speak with Garrus in his usual spot on the Main Deck. Look for dialogue options that hint at your past relationship or express growing affection.
  3. Citadel Target Practice: After a few conversations, Garrus will invite you to the Citadel for target practice. Meet him at the C-Sec Academy. During this scene, choose the romantic dialogue options to solidify your relationship.
  4. Commitment Dialogue: Following the target practice, Garrus will express his feelings. Choose the option, "I'm ready for this, Garrus."
  5. Apartment Visit (Citadel DLC): If you have the Citadel DLC, invite Garrus to your apartment for a special scene.

Tali'Zorah vas Normandy (Male Shepard Only)

Tali is a returning romance option from Mass Effect 2.

Walkthrough Steps:

  1. Priority: Geth Dreadnought: After this mission, speak with Tali in Engineering on the Normandy. Choose supportive dialogue.
  2. Normandy Conversations: Regularly speak with Tali in Engineering. Look for dialogue options that express your continued interest.
  3. Rannoch Arc: During the Rannoch storyline, your choices regarding the Geth and Quarians will impact Tali's emotional state. Ensure you make choices that support her and her people.
  4. Commitment Dialogue: After the Rannoch arc, Tali will visit Shepard's cabin. Choose the romantic dialogue option to commit to the relationship.
  5. Apartment Visit (Citadel DLC): If you have the Citadel DLC, invite Tali to your apartment for a special scene.

Ashley Williams (Male Shepard Only)

Ashley is a returning romance option from Mass Effect 1, provided she survived Virmire.

Walkthrough Steps:

  1. Priority: Mars: Visit Ashley in the hospital on the Citadel. Choose supportive dialogue.
  2. Citadel Hospital Visits: Continue to visit Ashley in the hospital after subsequent missions. Be consistently supportive and choose romantic dialogue options.
  3. C-Sec Academy: Once Ashley is released from the hospital, she will be at the C-Sec Academy. Speak with her there.
  4. Normandy Invitation: Eventually, Ashley will express her desire to rejoin the Normandy. Invite her back to the crew.
  5. Normandy Conversations: Speak with Ashley in the Crew Quarters regularly. Look for dialogue options that reaffirm your feelings.
  6. Commitment Dialogue: After several conversations, Ashley will come to Shepard's cabin. Choose the option, "I still want you, Ash."
  7. Apartment Visit (Citadel DLC): If you have the Citadel DLC, invite Ashley to your apartment for a special scene.

Kaiden Alenko (Female Shepard Only)

Kaiden is a returning romance option from Mass Effect 1, provided he survived Virmire.

Walkthrough Steps:

  1. Priority: Mars: Visit Kaiden in the hospital on the Citadel. Choose supportive dialogue.
  2. Citadel Hospital Visits: Continue to visit Kaiden in the hospital after subsequent missions. Be consistently supportive and choose romantic dialogue options.
  3. C-Sec Academy: Once Kaiden is released from the hospital, he will be at the C-Sec Academy. Speak with him there.
  4. Normandy Invitation: Eventually, Kaiden will express his desire to rejoin the Normandy. Invite him back to the crew.
  5. Normandy Conversations: Speak with Kaiden in the Crew Quarters regularly. Look for dialogue options that reaffirm your feelings.
  6. Commitment Dialogue: After several conversations, Kaiden will come to Shepard's cabin. Choose the option, "I still want you, Kaiden."
  7. Apartment Visit (Citadel DLC): If you have the Citadel DLC, invite Kaiden to your apartment for a special scene.

Traynor, Samantha (Female Shepard Only)

Samantha Traynor is a new romance option introduced in Mass Effect 3.

Walkthrough Steps:

  1. Normandy Conversations: Regularly speak with Traynor in the Normandy's Combat Information Center. Choose friendly and flirty dialogue options.
  2. Chess Invitation: Traynor will eventually invite Shepard to play chess. Accept her invitation.
  3. Shower Invitation: After the chess game, Traynor will invite Shepard to join her in the shower. Accept this invitation to commit to the romance.
  4. Apartment Visit (Citadel DLC): If you have the Citadel DLC, invite Traynor to your apartment for a special scene.

Cortez, Steve (Male Shepard Only)

Steve Cortez is a new romance option introduced in Mass Effect 3.

Walkthrough Steps:

  1. Normandy Conversations: Regularly speak with Cortez in the Normandy's Shuttle Bay. Be supportive and choose empathetic dialogue, especially regarding his grief.
  2. Citadel Shore Leave: After several conversations, Cortez will mention wanting to go on shore leave on the Citadel. Encourage him to go.
  3. Citadel Docks: Find Cortez at the Docks: Holding Area on the Citadel. Speak with him there, offering comfort and support.
  4. Commitment Dialogue: After the Citadel visit, Cortez will express his feelings on the Normandy. Choose the romantic dialogue option to commit.
  5. Apartment Visit (Citadel DLC): If you have the Citadel DLC, invite Cortez to your apartment for a special scene.

Kelly Chambers (Female & Male Shepard)

Kelly is a returning character from Mass Effect 2. She is a minor romance option in ME3, primarily for players who romanced her in ME2.

Walkthrough Steps:

  1. Citadel Refugee Camp: Find Kelly in the Citadel's Refugee Camp (Docks: Holding Area).
  2. Normandy Invitation: If you romanced her in ME2 and saved her from the Collector Base, you can invite her to dinner on the Normandy.
  3. Dinner Scene: During the dinner, you can reaffirm your past relationship. This is a brief, non-committal romance.

Diana Allers (Female & Male Shepard)

Diana Allers is a new, minor romance option in Mass Effect 3.

Walkthrough Steps:

  1. Normandy Invitation: After meeting her on the Citadel, invite Diana Allers to join the Normandy crew as a reporter.
  2. Interviews: Conduct interviews with her after major missions. Choose flirtatious dialogue options.
  3. Cabin Visit: Eventually, you can invite her to your cabin for a brief, non-committal intimate scene. This does not lock out other romances.